About Me


I have worked as a life coach and therapist for the past 15 years. I  trained at The World Coach Institute in 2017. I have worked as a licensed trauma therapist with a MSed in Social Agency Counseling for over 10 years in a variety of settings including hospitals, PHP, IOP, Addiction Centers, community mental health and private practice. My training as a therapist included identifying and working with Attachment Wounds, Development Trauma including neglect and deprivation, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, and Brainspotting. I worked primarily as therapist with C-PTSD, developmental trauma, BPD, and dissociative features including DID and OSDD.  I’ve always maintained a practice where I have slots for sliding fee scales for those who don’t have insurance or are struggling financially.

I work with individuals and provide group work around the need to identify values and develop attainable committed actions that allow us to live our lives with meaning and purpose even if we haven’t finished our therapy journeys. 

I use a number of assessments including the Adverse Childhood Experiences Study, ACEClifton StrengthsAttachment Style Quiz by Diane Poole Heller, Sixteen Personalities and a Post Traumatic Growth Survey among others. I compile this information at the beginning to give me insight as to the strengths that my clients bring to the table. Of course though, the one-on-one interview is essential. 

I have the lived experience of my own C-PTSD, GAD and MDD. I know what it’s like to be in therapy. I have two adult children with autism and ADHD. I bring all that and my additional training to work in a trauma informed manner. 

The clients I am priviledged to work with are brave, courageous, resilient, inventive, creative, tenacious, fierce and so much more. Their stories are filled with inspiration at how well they cope, survive and thrive. I am honored to be invited to accompany them as they work to live their lives more fully. I am inspired by their desire to have more. 

My clients range in age from 18 to 80. 

Finally, I am often asked to accompany adults who have come upon a point in their lives where their histories, often filled with traumas, finally refuse to accept limits to their abilities to live fully, freely and authentically – they say NO MORE.

They often come with stories of limits and terrible paralyzing fears that bear witness to what they have survived.

I am honored to hear and accompany them as they tell the truths of what they’ve survived and how they have survived. I am in awe and honor of the fact they are here, today, in front of me. Most have such functional lives. They are passionate parents, daughters and sons, brothers and sisters, employers and employees, friends and spouses and partners even as they struggle.

Our beginning work is strength focused – what are those super powers they bring? What skills did they develop to survive the unsurvivable? Working together, we identify strengths and understand that we’ll use them to go on. I often will use assessments that identify their top five strengths from Clifton Strengths and their Meyer-Briggs identification and their attachment styles. All this information is used to help formulate a treatment plan that includes  clients’ goals and how to obtain them. We work collaboratively, but the client, you, sets the goals. I may help to clarify. We work to untangle lies and limits and fears to restore back to them the lives they were intended to have. And then they grow and transform into the best versions of themselves.

I am inspired by the words restoration and transformation – it’s what I see my clients do, day in and day out.

So, this may look like and is often labeled depression, anxiety, or PTSD. But I understand the effects of trauma and the coping skills developed to survive. I honor all the ways people have worked to be here, right now. My hope is to take those strengths and add to them along with adding flexibility and choices – you can make choices now! It’s part of what we discover together – where do you need freedom and flexibility.

 

My Work History

My Training and Tools

  • Current – therapist at Counseling Services of Atlanta
    678-215-2007
     800 Old Roswell Lakes Parkway, Suite 200
    Roswell, GA 30076 and provide individual, group, family and psycho-ed services to clients from 14 through adult using Brainspotting, EMDR, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Somatic and Attachment tools using a client-centered, strength based approach.
  • Southeast Addiction center as a group facilitator leading a Processing group, an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Group and a Trauma Group.
  • Manna Treatment on their trauma client side using EMDR, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy,
    somatic and attachment-based interventions with adult clients from diverse backgrounds.
  • Life Coach for many years and currently. 
  • Eastway Community Mental Health in Dayton, OH working in a variety of positions including crisis counseling, hospital intake, residential treatment, and individual
    counseling. 
  • Seven years for several large businesses including logistics at Wright Patterson Air Force Base as an Information Specialist, EDS supporting a GM account as a Systems Analyst, and NCR as an Information Specialist.
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I have obtained an extensive amount of training, primarily in the area of trauma treatment including:

  • ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Brainspotting
  • Perinatal Mood & Anxiety Disorders
  • Perinatal Loss & Grief
  • EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
  • Attachment Focused EMDR
  • Somatic Tools Training
  • Attachment Work Training
  • Sand Tray (yes for adults)
  • TF-CBT: Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • CPT: Cognitive Processing Therapy
  • Life Coaching from the Worldwide Coaching Institute
  • Post graduate training in Gestalt Therapy
  • MS in Social Agency Counseling from University of Dayton
  • BS  in Computer Science Engineering with minors in Russian and Mathematics

My Personal Information

I have been married for over 35 years. I have 9 children ranging from late 20s down to 14. Yes I survived, and yes it was difficult at times.

I am a voracious reader, especially science fiction. “Arrival” is my favorite movie based on my favorite short story, “The Story of Us” by Ted Chiang included in a book of SF short stories. I mostly enjoy more positive, hopeful science fiction like “The Martian.” 

I love cooking, especially ethnic food, Thai, Greek, and other Mediterranean and Arabic food. 

I write extensively, mostly for myself; I can easily churn out 10,000 words. I enjoy drawing and small sculpturing. Some day I hope to have a pottery studio with a throwing wheel and kiln. I garden and long for a sunroom where I can grow flowers and herbs all year long.

My friends describe me as a deep thinker, quiet, warm, compassionate, intuitive and a bit melancholic with a rye sense of humor and great listening skills. I show up very strongly as an INFJ if you know anything about the Meyers-Brigg classification system.

My top five strengths from Gallup’s StrengthFinder 2.0 are Achiever, Restorative, Relator, Empathy, Harmony (Oh, Input was right there!) – I am a life-long learner involved currently in training for RTT and MAP. In the future, I plan to take college courses for free (a perk to living in Georgia when you turn 62) including Linguistics and Discrete Math. I studied a number of foreign languages in colleges including Spanish, Greek, Korean and Arabic (that’s in addition to Russian). And, I taught my kids Latin.

I still immensely enjoy learning about other cultures. I’ve read an extensive amount of Canadian and Swedish literature and plan on delving into other country’s popular literature to get a sense of their culture. Oh, and Iceland… see I know quirky things like this… they do not bring other languages into their language – so instead of bringing in the word “computer” they created from their own words “counting witch.” So that means they can read 15th century Icelandic literature with very little trouble. I think that’s quite beautiful.

My favorite image are Tuckamore trees that grows in Newfoundland. They are simple evergreens that when planted in groves grows straight and tall. But at times, seeds are swept to coastlines. They take root on the sides of cliffs and are tenacious. They bend nearly to the ground from the unrelenting harsh, icy, ocean winds, but they STAY. The ground under them is often littered with branches that simply could not withstand the fierce winds, but they dig in deep and stay. I think they are a model for the resiliency of the clients I am allowed to accompany through their process of restoration, transformation and healing. I find the trees’ forms intensely beautiful and a model for how we often survive trauma.